Find Your Perfect Work
There was something about the way “Super Fly” Jimmy Snuka jumped from the third rope of the wresting ring onto his opponent that made me want to be a professional wrestler. I couldn’t wait to become a star of the wrestling ring.
But when I shared my dream with adults, I was told that girls weren’t born to be wrestlers. That was a boy’s job. I remember becoming upset and saying, “But I’m a tomboy. Can’t tomboys be wrestlers?” and the universal answer was no, not even tomboys can be wrestlers.
Any lingering dreams I had of being a professional wrestler quickly disappeared the day my cousin put me in a figure-four leg lock, a very painful wrestling move. However, the experience of being told I couldn’t fulfill my career goals due to my gender has remained with me till this day.
As a professional who deals with career issues every day, I have come to realize that my story isn’t unusual. Though the reasons vary, countless other people’s childhood dreams have been squashed by well-meaning adults. I am one of the lucky ones who found my way to a gratifying career; others are still searching for their perfect work.
If you are one of those people who want to change careers but find the thought overwhelming, you are not alone. That feeling is understandable, since most likely you spent many years on acquiring an education and/or honing your craft to just give it up midstream—even if you are unhappy.
Like most life changes, a career shift requires introspection—an examination into where you have been and where you want to be. If you find that you are dissatisfied with your work, asking yourself the following questions can helpful in your journey to a satisfying career. Read More
But when I shared my dream with adults, I was told that girls weren’t born to be wrestlers. That was a boy’s job. I remember becoming upset and saying, “But I’m a tomboy. Can’t tomboys be wrestlers?” and the universal answer was no, not even tomboys can be wrestlers.
Any lingering dreams I had of being a professional wrestler quickly disappeared the day my cousin put me in a figure-four leg lock, a very painful wrestling move. However, the experience of being told I couldn’t fulfill my career goals due to my gender has remained with me till this day.
As a professional who deals with career issues every day, I have come to realize that my story isn’t unusual. Though the reasons vary, countless other people’s childhood dreams have been squashed by well-meaning adults. I am one of the lucky ones who found my way to a gratifying career; others are still searching for their perfect work.
If you are one of those people who want to change careers but find the thought overwhelming, you are not alone. That feeling is understandable, since most likely you spent many years on acquiring an education and/or honing your craft to just give it up midstream—even if you are unhappy.
Like most life changes, a career shift requires introspection—an examination into where you have been and where you want to be. If you find that you are dissatisfied with your work, asking yourself the following questions can helpful in your journey to a satisfying career. Read More
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